1969 Centennial Celebration in Hillsdale, MI |
Growing up in Detroit, Edward had a very unique childhood. He helped his birth father Charles fix mafia automobiles (at one time he found a trunk of one stockpiled with loaded guns), he washed cars for movie stars that lived next door to his family, and he sold The Detroit Free Press as a newspaper wagon boy around the city streets. He never graduated from high school as he dropped out to work to help support his family as well as join the military. During his service in the United States Army he was stationed at Camp Wallace in Texas where he worked as a cook, but he only served a short term before he threw out his back and was honorably discharged.
Hilda and Herluf eventually moved down to the Hillsdale, Michigan area, and that is where Edward first met Annabelle Price in the summer 1951. He fell in love with her immediately. He watched her intently as she rode horses bareback around her yard. He wanted so badly to go out with her, and being a confident fellow, he never let up the pursuit despite her initial disgust with him. Annabelle was a real beauty and was seeing another fellow named Jim at the time, but Edward finally wooed her with his charm. He started visiting her once or twice a week on the way home from work at Bundy Tubing, often times staying until the early morning hours of the next day, and finally she realized that she too had feelings for him.
Wedding Day (L to R: Harold Gardner (Annabelle's Step-Father), Lucile Gardner, Annabelle, Edward, Hilda Midtgard, Herluf Midtgard) |
Dianne's First Christmas |
Edward worked at Jonesville Products as a foreman for a good portion of his life. He was known as the friendly boss, always joking and smiling with those who worked for him. He saw all people as good people and treated them as such. He worked his way up to the foreman position after numerous laboring jobs, so he knew all about the positions that they were in. He brought home good money, and was able to put his daughter through school at Hillsdale College as well as feed into his other hobbies.
Edward was an avid antique collector and an original "American picker". He traveled around the tri-state area to auctions and shows to purchase anything that interested him. He filled buildings with buggies, wagons, gas pumps, classic cars, furniture, cookie jars, tools, and various other artifacts. He enjoyed the rush of finding old items, learning about their past, and purchasing them and adding them into his collection. This is a passion that he passed down to my mother as well as to me. However, he didn't hold on to everything. He held one of the biggest antique auctions in Michigan in 1997, as it was decided that it was time to downsize and move closer to family.
In 1997, Edward and Annabelle moved south to Pioneer, Ohio in order to be closer to their daughter. They bought one of the prettiest spec homes in town and enjoyed every minute of family time. In the past, they had watched their grandchildren, my sister and me, by driving forty-five minutes everyday. Now they didn't worry about the conditions of the roads as they were literally a block away from Dianne and her family.
Edward with Dianne and Austin |
In the time spent in Ohio, Edward and Annabelle continued their lives as normally as possible by still going to auctions, flea markets, and antique shows. Many times they brought my mother and us kids along with them for the ride. They purchased abstract and beautiful items that they knew would just go up in price as they years went by. They truly enjoyed this passion up until the end of Edward's life.
50th Wedding Anniversary as Schuler's (L to R: Audra, Annabelle, Edward, Sterling, Austin) |
Around the start of 2003, Edward grew weak and became bed-ridden. He had been diagnosed with prostate cancer a couple years earlier, and it was finally taking its toll on him. Throughout this stage, Annabelle waited on him hand and foot and did all she could to make sure that he was happy. I will never forget the look I saw in their eyes during these last couple of years. My grandfather had sparks in his eyes every time he spoke with my grandmother, and she always returned them with a smile. They were calm with each other and weren't afraid to show affection with warm hugs and big kisses, even moments before Edward left for Heaven.
Edward died on December 19, 2004 at Hillsdale Community Health Center in Hillsdale, Michigan. He had been there all month after initially going due to a heart attack, a stroke, and breathing trouble. During that month Annabelle barely came home or slept. She sat by her husband's side holding his hand and talking with him even though he couldn't talk back. She never left the room without kissing him goodbye, and this is a testament to the strength of their love, their true love.
My grandfather goes down in my memory as one of, if not the most, important men in my life. I see aspects of him in myself everyday. Superficially, we have the same style when it comes to constantly wearing dress clothes and tastes such as having a passion for collecting abstract and unique antiques. Looking at deeper areas though, we have the same open mind, caring heart, and strong work ethic. I don't go a day in my life without thanking my grandfather for aiding me in becoming who I am today.